What to Wear to a Wedding as a Guest: The Ultimate Guide for Men
Figuring out the right tuxedo or suit as wedding guest can be challenging, especially with different dress codes and styles. Whether it’s a formal ballroom event, a beachside celebration, or a rustic barn wedding, this guide will help you look sharp, feel comfortable, and—most importantly—stay within the wedding’s dress code. Here’s your ultimate style breakdown for each wedding type to help you look like the best-dressed guest!
Understanding Wedding Dress Codes
Each dress code calls for a different look, so let’s go over the essentials for each one.
Black Tie
This is the most formal dress code for a wedding. A classic black tuxedo with a black bow tie is your go-to. A crisp white dress shirt, black patent leather shoes, and a formal black bow tie complete the look. If you want to add a bit of personality, consider a pocket square or cufflinks.
Black Tie OPTIONAL / FORMAL
For a black tie optional wedding, you have the choice between a tuxedo or a dark suit. If you choose the tux, follow the guidelines above. If you opt for a dark suit, make sure it’s tailored, and pair it with a white dress shirt, solid dark tie, and polished leather shoes.
SEMI-FORMAL
A semi-formal dress code requires a suit but allows a little more flexibility. Try a medium-dark suit in navy, charcoal, or gray. A dress shirt and tie are standard, but you can experiment with colors and patterns as long as they remain elegant. Shoes should still be leather dress shoes—brown or black based on your suit color.
COCKTAIL ATTIRE
This style is about showing personality while keeping it sharp. Choose a well-fitted suit, either in a classic color like navy or in a seasonally appropriate tone like light gray. Feel free to wear a patterned tie or add a pocket square for a stylish touch. Loafers or oxford shoes work well for this dress code.
CASUAL
For casual weddings, especially those held outdoors, you can opt for dress pants with a crisp button-down shirt. A lightweight blazer can be a nice touch if the weather permits. Skip the tie and go for loafers or dressy boots to keep it relaxed yet polished.
Dressing for the Wedding Season
The season plays a big role in both comfort and style, so choose fabrics and colors accordingly.
SPRING WEDDINGS
Light gray, blue, and pastel shades are perfect for spring. Opt for a light suit paired with a floral or light-colored tie.
SUMMER WEDDINGS
Summer weddings often call for lighter colors and fabrics. A linen or cotton suit in shades of light blue, beige, or gray will keep you comfortable. A pocket square in a floral or light hue adds seasonal flair. If it’s a beach wedding, ditch the socks and go for a casual look with loafers.
FALL WEDDINGS
Rich colors and heavier fabrics work best for fall. Look for suits in darker tones like charcoal, navy, or deep green. A wool suit works well for cooler evenings. Add a tie in autumnal colors like burgundy or forest green for a classic, seasonal look.
WINTER WEDDINGS
For winter weddings, embrace darker hues and heavier fabrics. Black, navy, or deep charcoal suits in wool or velvet will keep you warm and stylish. Consider a black tie or bow tie for a more formal look, and don’t forget to add a tailored suit coat if you’ll be outdoors.
Style Tips to Stand Out as a Wedding Guest
Even with a dress code, you can incorporate subtle touches to show your style while respecting the couple’s guidelines.
FOCUS ON FIT
The most crucial part of your outfit is the fit. Make sure your suit is well-tailored, regardless of the dress code. Luckily, we have a Fit Guarantee Policy to ensure our customers get a perfect fit, every time.
ADD ACCESSORIES
Cufflinks, pocket squares, and tie bars can elevate any outfit. Just make sure not to overdo it—one or two accessories are enough to make a statement.
SHOES
Leather shoes are a must for any formal or semi-formal dress code. Black patent-leather are great for black tie, while brown leather shoes work well for cocktail or semi-formal.
ADD A VEST
For a bit of sophistication, add a vest to your look (they’re included free with all of our tuxedo & suit rentals). A three-piece suit or tuxedo with a matching vest can give you a sleek, layered look that stands out.
Ready to Rent? Choose National Tuxedo Rentals
As a wedding guest, you want to look sharp without the hassle of buying a suit you might only wear once. That’s where National Tuxedo Rentals comes in. Our tuxedos and suits come in a variety of styles and sizes to fit any dress code, from black-tie to casual.
EASY ONLINE SIZING
Get the right fit with our smart sizing algorithm. We can determine your perfect sizes with only your height, weight, jeans size, and t-shirt size. No measurements necessary! If anything doesn’t fit when you receive it, we promise to fix it!
ALL-INCLUSIVE TUXEDO PACKAGES
Customize your look with tuxedo rental packages that include all essential accessories. Our tuxedo rental packages start as low as $159, making luxury looks accessible.
FREE ROUNDTRIP SHIPPING
We’ll deliver the suit 2-weeks early to try on so you can check the sizing. After your event, we’ll even pick it up from your home – for free!
Choosing the right outfit for a wedding shouldn’t be stressful, and with these style guidelines, you’re ready to make a statement while honoring the dress code. Whether you’re renting or investing in a new suit, remember that confidence and comfort are key—because a well-dressed guest is a welcome guest!
